Writing your profile
The first, and if you don't fill it out, only contact with a potential partner online will be via your profile. Having a well presented profile will attract interesting partners who are interested in you. If you don't put any effort into it you'll likely attract no interest or just get the machine gun messages from people sending the same thing out to everyone in the search results.
Staying safe
As with any walk of life, some people on online dating sites don't have your best intentions at heart. We try hard to eliminate these members as soon as we see them but you should be on your guard too. Just a few basic measures will make sure you're not taken advantage of. If you do notice anything suspicious please report it to us so we can act to protect the rest of our members. This page isn't meant to scare you off but merely give you a few things to think about. The vast majority is common sense but sometimes we all need reminding. Especially when it comes to matters of the heart, we can all too easily forget reason and get taken advantage of. If you are suspicious or unsure of anyone then just back off and trust your instincts.
Is online dating for me?
If you are single and looking for someone special there are a variety of different ways to meet new people: Friends, Colleagues, bars and clubs to name just a few. Of course you could just leave it to chance but as you have made it this far we will assume you are looking to give love a little encouragement. Take the plunge and registering for an online dating website can be a daunting prospect especially if you are a little overweight and not keen on putting yourself on show in such a public manner.
Contacting other members
We provide a range of different ways for our members to interact. From sending bashful Winks or Icebreakers to chat and secure messaging. You can decide how you want to connect with people who catch your eye. We do recommend that you keep communications within the site for starters until you get to know each other better to avoid potentially revealing personal details such as email address or phone numbers.